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16. What the Guys Think

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WHAT THE GUYS THINK...

Although you may not realize it, guys have an opinion on abortion too. We asked six guys their opinion on this uncomfortable subject.

If a woman does not protect herself properly in becoming pregnant, it would be morally wrong to abort a child. Our government is not supposed to be based on morals, it is supposed to be based on freedom. A woman should have the freedom to choose whether or not she wants a child, and the  government should not regulate morals. So in short, a woman should take all the protections she can in not becoming  pregnant. If she does not, it would be against morals to abort, but it should not be regulated by the government.  

- Mike, 20

I believe abortion should be legal and that women should have the right to choose what to do with her own uterus.  Why should there be someone telling you what you can and can’t do with your own body?  It is a choice that should be left up to each person whether you think it is right or wrong.  That choice should be left up to the individual who is pregnant.

- Aaron, 19

I believe that abortion is acceptable in certain situation. If a women has        been raped, she then finds out she is pregnant, she should be able to have an abortion. If a teenage girl has a mishap and ends up bearing a child, she should also be able to have an abortion.  If ever a girl has more than one abortion than she needs to figure it out. I think it kind of becomes murder if you repeatedly do have the operation.  Birth control, condoms, the shots, whatever measures can be taken, should be taken, to prevent this in the fist place.  One time, or one mistake, I think its okay.  But precautions should be taken before and especially after.

- Collin, 19

I think that abortion is okay in cases of rape, or financial trouble, where you won’t be able to take care of the baby.  I think that if a girl is going to get an abortion, she shouldn’t be able to do it after she is 3 months pregnant.  Late term abortion shouldn’t be allowed because the baby is almost all the way formed, so why not just put him/her up for adoption.  I also think abortion is okay to save the mother’s life.  One of my friends had to get an abortion at 18-years-old to save her own life because of a medical condition, and I supported her in her decision.

- Brian, 19

I am Pro-life.  I don’t think that abortion is right at anytime.  If you get raped, call me and I will got beat the guy to the ground and come take care of you through your pregnancy and after, just don’t go get an abortion.  I am a religious guy and just don’t think that we should be able to decide if we kill a life that was given to us.  And if your pregnancy is unplanned, it is not the baby’s fault that is growing inside of you, there are so many options, abortion isn’t the answer.

- Josh, 21

To me, abortion is an important issue that deserves to be addressed.  Abortion isn’t something that should happen for any little reason.  It’s definitely not something that should be taken lightly.  Abortion should only be used in extreme situations where if the child were to be born, it would be worse off (if the baby were being born into a crack family or into a family with abusive parents). I believe that there shouldn’t be a law forbidding abortion but that it should be a very complicated process to have it accomplished.  I also believe that the father of the “child” should have an almost but not quite equal say as the mother.  To sum up, abortion should be an option, but also a last resort.

- Jeff, 20