Many people wonder am I in love? It seems that many couples get
into this predicament. Are we ready to move in together or get
married or even ready to have kids? Before these questions are
answered there seems to be a lot more “involvement” sexually in
the couples lives, this is where some problems can occur. Women can
tell you that no matter what they do they have an emotional
attachment to their lover/s. There is no easy way around it to all
you male readers. You are going to hurt somebody if you just get up
and leave at daybreak.
One thing I have noticed about guys is that sex is just bragging
rights to them. In the locker room, “Oh man I got so drunk and
fucked some chick,” you need to watch out you aren’t “some chick”.
Some guys just don’t have the attachment as women do, they can have
their fun and go. Of course I am not saying all guys are like this,
you can find a few in a bunch that will keep on treating you lie a
princess no matter what. I have been lucky to find my prince,
sometimes I wonder if I deserve him.
So back to the subject manner, is it love? Can you say that you
would actually die for this person? Or risk you career/goals just to
be near them. Do you daydream about them even if they are right
next to you? There are many questions that you should ask yourself
before you make steps into the future with your special someone.
Make sure that this person is right for you. If you are sexually
involved with them know the consequences. Are you ready to be a
mother and have him as a your baby’s father? So make sure you answer
your questions over time to see if realistically you are in love.
